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Puerto Rico LifeSytle
Mi nuevo club de yahoo para personas de Puerto Rico
Welcome to the Gates of Hell
Este site es de mi amigo marilynmojojo. Espero que visiten su pagina y se una a su club.
BDSM Real en Mexico by Ama Karla
Este yahoo group es de una tremenda Domme de Mexico ya inaguro su nuevo calabozo en Monterrey Mexico.
Spanking and BDSM in Puerto Rico
Mi club de spanking and bdsm in Puerto Rico: enjoy the club
Un web site de bdsm para poner su profile.
Beyond Hell
Este es el com de mi amiga marynmojojojo con mucha informacion sobre temas del bdsm en general.
Hola a todos los visitantes de esta pagina. Esta pagina esta dedicada al BDSM y el Spanking. A los Dom y Domme a los sumisos o sumisas, esclavas o esclavos de Puerto Rico y las personas de habla hispana.
You will often hear it said that the first and most important rule
in B&D-S/M is that all things we do with each other must be safe,
sane, and consensual. What does this mean? Ask any set of
experienced players and you'll get a different set of answers.

"Safe" means that we take care of each other as best we can, that no
matter how we want our scenes, however gentle or rough, we do them
in ways that do not injure our partners. "Safe" means that we take
the dangers of sexually transmitted diseases seriously and use our
best efforts to minimize those dangers. What can you do? Educate
yourself. Learn as much as you can so that you can do safe scenes.
Those means read books, take classes, and ask others about specific
techniques that interest you. Want to learn to use a cane? Ask an
expert. Want to swing a flogger? Practice first on a pillow. Whether
you're driving a car or tying somebody up, safety should always come
first. It's especially important to not let your desire rule your
good sense, so think about the specifics of your scenes outside of
the scene. "Don't think with your groin."

Power exchange is about trust -- trust that the person who has the
power in a scene will use it responsibly. If you are the Top then it
is up to you to use the power your Bottom has granted you in a
respectful and sane way. Your Bottom has given you a gift of trust,
and you are honor-bound to repay it with good judgment. If as the
Top you are so involved in your scene that you can't make good
judgments, then you are not in control of yourself, and you have no
business being in control of someone else. Sanity is about control,
and self-control comes first.

Everything that happens in a scene between people must be acceptable
to all concerned. If you aren't sure that your partner has
consented -- has said 'yes' -- then you need to talk until you are
sure. The best way to get to 'yes' is to make sure that 'no' is an
equally acceptable answer. This holds true in every situation,
whether asking someone for a phone number or negotiating a scene.
The less pressure you apply, the more likely that a 'yes' will come
and will be a sincere answer. It's dangerous to play with someone
who has said 'yes' for the wrong reasons. You can quickly end up in
a situation that is neither safe, sane, or consensual. To protect
against this, refrain from pressuring anyone, and if you feel you
are being pressured, set limits and stand by them. You should always
feel free to say 'no.' Consensual means that you are scening because
you want to, with someone who wants to, that everyone involved is
willing to go ahead with the scene. If you are in the least bit
unsure, stop and talk. The time to clarify consent is before a
scene, not after.

Unsafe Players
There are no entrance exams to pass to get into the community and
personal judgments vary. Anyone who has been around for more than a
little while has likely heard about someone who is reputed to be
unsafe, emotionally unstable, or who doesn't respect limits. You
should take these warnings seriously, but remember that such
judgments are necessarily subjective. Get second and third opinions
if you can. And if you find yourself in the position of wanting to
warn others about a player you feel is unsafe, be as objective as
you can, and give facts whenever possible. Let's take care of each
submitted by marylinmojojojo beyond hell
Slavery is not about suffering . .
slavery is about service.
Slavery is not about humiliation .
slavery is about humility.
Slavery is not about pain . . .
slavery is about being present.
Slavery is not about being used . .
slavery is about being of use.
Slavery is not about control . . .
slavery is about letting go.
Slavery is not about your desires . . .
slavery is about giving to others.
Slavery is not about abuse . . .
slavery is about acceptance.
Slavery is not about proving anything ...
slavery is about being real.
Slavery is not about contempt ....
slavery is about respect.
Slavery is not about how you look . . .
slavery is about how you care.
Slavery is not about denying yourself . . .
slavery is about being open.
Slavery is not about punishment .
slavery is about discipline
Slavery is not about escape . . .
slavery is about being committed.
Slavery is not about submission . .
slavery is about obedience.
Slavery is not about fear . . .
slavery is about trust.
Slavery is not about sex . . .
slavery is about love.
Slavery is not about pleasure . . .
slavery is about happiness

submitted by marylinmojojojo beyond hell

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